After studying geology in university, I bought a one-way ticket to New Zealand with $600 in my pocket. That trip sparked a 13-year adventure overseas, where I was based in Kathmandu, Nepal for 10 years, guiding people on expeditions, mostly whitewater and climbing trips in Nepal, South America, and Siberia. During this time, I also worked as a photojournalist and filmmaker.
Later, I ran a film festival in Telluride, Colorado, which helped develop my skills in managing a community. These experiences ultimately led me to become the mayor of Mosier, Oregon, a town just outside of Portland. As mayor, I learned to leverage my diverse background to effectively lead and serve my community.
For me, the key to living a simple, fulfilling life is not being burdened by excessive debt or material possessions. I’ve found that the less I own, the freer I am to pursue my passions and give back to my community. I don’t have the latest gadgets or fancy luxuries – my joys come from experiences like wind sports, exploring nature, and connecting with people.
One of my guiding principles is that if I want to do something, I’ll do it for free, and if I don’t want to do it, I won’t do it for any amount of money. This mindset has given me the freedom to make decisions based on what’s truly important to me, rather than being driven by financial concerns or fear of not having enough.
Wind sports, like kiting and wing foiling, are a huge part of my life and have become essential for my physical and mental well-being. The ability to access a “bliss state” while out on the water, alone and connected to nature, is incredibly nourishing for me.
I first learned to windsurf in Baja in 1997, and the wind has drawn me in ever since. The predictable wind patterns in La Ventana, Mexico, where I spend several months a year, allow me to plan my days around getting out on the water. Whether it’s kiting for an hour and a half, covering 18 miles, or learning the new sport of wing foiling, these activities keep me feeling vital and balanced as I get older.
Owning property in Oregon has provided me with a financial safety net, as the value of my home has appreciated significantly since I bought it in 1994. However, I’ve found that the freedom to come and go as I please is better served by renting in La Ventana rather than owning property here.
The rental options in La Ventana range widely, from $12 per night camping spots to $6,000 per month beachfront homes. I currently rent a house for around $1,100 per month, which allows me to have guests visit and provides more space than the $200 per month trailer I was previously renting.
While I’ve considered buying land or a home in La Ventana, I’m hesitant to take on the additional responsibilities and potential headaches of ownership. Renting allows me to maintain a light footprint and focus on the activities and community that are most important to me.
My grandfather once told me to “keep your stern free to swing” – in other words, maintain control over the direction of your own life. Happiness is a choice, and by actively making decisions that align with our values and desires, we can create the life we want.
I’ve noticed that expats often seem happier because they’ve chosen to step out of their comfort zones and explore new possibilities. My advice would be to not let fear or uncertainty hold you back. If moving to Mexico or pursuing a more adventurous lifestyle is something that calls to you, then I encourage you to follow that path. Keep your options open, be adaptable, and focus on the experiences and connections that truly nourish you.
As Arlene has demonstrated, a life of freedom, simplicity, and purpose is possible when we prioritize what’s most important to us. Whether it’s wind sports, community involvement, or just waking up without an alarm, the key is to make choices that allow you to live authentically and on your own terms. So what are you waiting for? It’s time to get happy and start your own journey to Mexico or beyond.
To learn more about Arlene’s adventures and her involvement in the community, check out her website at arleneburns.com. And for helpful resources on moving to Mexico, be sure to visit Mexico Relocation Guide.
